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Five Kinky Alternatives To The Coffee Date
by Jess Davis

The good news - you've weeded through dozens of replies to your ad and picked out one (or a few!) that seem appealing at first blush. Well done, you. But now what to do with them? We all know that safety and common sense dictate a public meeting with a total stranger, while the instinct for self-preservation urges us towa

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Hiker99 74 M
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Very Good. There is more to play, and a person, than goes
on in the Dungeon. A different setting provides ways of
appreciating your play partner and insights into their
desires and abilities. Even great advice for a "vanilla."

Maxkat12 52 F
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These sound like a lot of fun. I love the idea of getting out of the "coffee shop".

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HOME DEPOT here I come!!!!

_Natas_ 71 M
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thanks for the ideas you are a smart one.

MARTIN1042 46 M
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Good idea.I like it.

MasterDFs 72 M
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Insightful for dating.I kinda like the library where she
has to write every thing down.It makes it a disciplinarian
theme, and you can tell much by the writing.But I guess
that's for another day.

pdxlover4u 55 M
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Excellent ideas for any type of date. Thank you for sharing.

towt 40 M
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I've had a few creative ones myself


*Factory Tour *Museum of Art *Amusement park


I hate doing the coffee shop thing too.

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Your ideas were great! The best first date scenario I have
heard yet, was to meet at an adult toy store and "window
shop" together. Great discussions, humor, creativity,
and inhibitions all come out right away!


Dark Pleasurz


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Different tastes with a variety of flavors outside the
coffee shop or cafe... I love the ideas. Another great place
is to meet is at an amusement park. That opens up a variety
of opportunities while getting to know each other as you
test the waters... Loved the article...

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yea. know what you mean.

master1344 61 M
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very.hot.story

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Loved the hardware store, fantastic idea.

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They are all great ideas, and I never would have thought
about a laundry date. That is so fitting.

80467 58 M
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I like the batting cage. The idea would be to start throwing
fast balls at her to see how many she could hit or bunt or deflect...
and of course to see how she reacts to the pain of those which
hit her!

youngcyn4 32 F
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outstanding for any tye of dating first time.ty

devilDOM58 77 M
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I have always disliked "coffee dates" and have
found several alternative dates to My liking. The ones
in this article I really liked and will try in the future.
One type of "First Date" that I have tried before
and had great success with is going to a Nudist Colony or
Nudist beach. Try it , you just maybe surprised by the good
time you have while meeting someone for the first time.

toppas1000 47 M
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WWWWaw!!!!!

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interesting and original!

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Those are fabulous ideas. I, for one, would love to go a first
date that didn't revolve around coffee. Granted I
love coffee, but something new would be wonderful

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Interesting ideas. Would help the ice breaker talk as well.
I like the idea of doing something out of the ordinary.

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I like the suggestions in this article.I just might a few
of them.

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I like it. Very nice ideas.

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Love the hardware store idea. I may just go myself to play
the game of "what can i do with this" :)

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thx for the ideas...been trying to come up with an unusual
first date. volunteering at the local homeless shelter
is gonna be a blast (i actually know the lady in charge of
meals personally) what an awesome idea thank again

whipgod 69 M
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Nice ideas, but how about meeting at a grocery store? Everyone
buys groceries and who couldn't think of a few things
to do with fruit and vegetables?

boy_Tamer 69 M
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Boy, have I been getting tired of coffee. Thanks for the
ideas!


George

AndMe2 50 M
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Great ideas, even a bus ride with an agreed time frame before
you can get off

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next time im definatly going to lowes

danasgurl3 37 C
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i totally agree

Realhot72 45 M
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Thank you...very clever and well written...


Might also try the hardware store recommendation...

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I REALLY like the hardware store idea. :) Creativity is
a key in these kinds of relationships.

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lots of interesting ideas.

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u can learn a little from this..

subxxxxx 69 M
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Home Depot is called Dom Depot for a reason!

oralds 60 M
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If you're both into exhibitionism it's fun to
take a trip to Best Buy. Great ice breaker to look at cameras
and video equipment that just might spark some other things
in the relationship.

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Thanks, i never would have thought of that!