These views reflect many of my own. Nice to see someone else
with the same views.

Interesting and enlightening article. Thank you

It takes special individuals to do what you do, I have a little
experience in this aspect of the lifestyle but am learning,
wow how awesome it must be to have 2 doms.

2 doms!? wow. I like reading what you had to say. gave me some
insite about who I am. thanxs.

Loved the story I like two or three subs myself.

Loved the story. I myself like two or three subs.

Q 1. Would poly subs prefer to have it ALL in One Masterful
package or really prefer to have more than One.


Q 2. Do the Dominants need to be poly too?


Q 3. Do the Dominants need to communicate with each other?



Q 4. Do Poly Doms do it just to rack up points/collect or are
they too looking for different things that they feel they
cannot get from one or?


Got me wondering all kinds of things here. But my own answer
is that i would love to have the combo.. right mix in One.



mystry d

Thank you for a thoughtful article. I too have considered
that two could be better than one considering my own goals
and needs and that maybe I'm more than one handful!
How does your daily dom respond to your once a week dom?

Wonderful article. Thank you.

Very balanced and healthy approach to life. Congrats!

Far out - bigger is better on this planet

What an excellent article....It really spoke to me, especially
at this time in my life and BDSM experience level that I am
considering dual Doms and being polyamorous. Thanks!!!!

This is terrific because it adresses real fears that I have.
I do wish it was easier to learn about myself, but then would
it be worth it?

You are honest and forthright in your viewpoints. I/we
agree primarily. You made one comment about poly that really
makes sense: "After a time I came to realize that I could sub to more
than one dom, and not just in individual scenes. What I’d
realized in terms of polyamory enabling me to find different
partners who would each meet different needs also applied
to the BDSM side of my life." I have had a brief experience
with two subs at the same time and each provides me with different
things. I have begun to urge my sub to find a second Dom to
help her fulfill her unfulfilled needs. We are a permanent
couple so that even adds to the dimension of me seeking other
subs and her seeking other Doms. For I/we it is an experiment
in progress. That makes your comment that much more helpful.

I found your attitude admirable!Jealousy is a huge barrier
to conquer.Congrats!!!

great article:) i'm a sub in a poly relationship and
looking for another dom....great to know it can work. i
struggled a little with the thought of serving 2 doms, but
i'm comfortable with that idea now....and excited
about having some new experiences:)

I think that this is the place I would like to be. Serving
people who meet my different _needs_, but not everyone
can support me in the right ways. I guess maybe its a solution
to the problem of finding the perfect person - find the perfect
set of people.

Well interesting...

very intersting article thank you for sharing and your
honesty

Thank you so much for sharing what worked for you. I don't
think it would work for me, but I really clicked with what
you said about empowerment and joy: "...no paradigm,
regardless of what you call it – feminism, humanism, spaghetti-ism
– is a good one for you if it stops you from being happy. Or
makes you ashamed of who you are. True empowerment is about
exploring all the parts of yourself that give you joy."



That is one of the best things I've read in years. Somewhere
below the surface I must have been thinking that for a long
time now, and reading it from you just caused it to break
free and, I hope, change my outlook on life.


Thank you!

I wonder if the you in a few years time will want to give the
present day you some advice on poly s/m relationships.
I personally have tried it but with 4 slaves and 1 Master.
It brings good things but certain aspects of submission
I feel are limited, and there's something special
about that one on one bond.


Yes its a great feeling to be out of closet and guilt free
about one's love of kink and bi-sexuality etc. However
there is always a time and a place and it's good to keep
it quiet in some vanilla situations.


Very good article, I empathise with much of what you say.

I wonder if the you in a few years time would like to give the
present day you some advice on poly relationships? I have
been there myself and yes you learn a lot and it is so fun ,
bringing good things you wouldnt imagine to happen , but
I think theres a lot to be said for that special bond you only
get with one on one submission.





Youre right, its good to be out of the closet and confident
in what you are but at the same theres no point setting yourself
up for gossip and judgement with bigoted vanilla people
.

I admire your attitude, but I think that poly will always
be a real niche market. At the end of the day we are just normal
people carrying a huge backpack stuffed with the results
of two thousand years of very effective and triumphant
Christian and Catholic instruction and education. This
means to be poly (as a Dom or Sub) will demand your firm conviction
and a lot of self confidence, because according to convention
you're behaving offbeat simultaneously in two aspects
of your live. So if you're not sure, don't try.



Take care, GLOP

Very intriguing article. I very much enjoyed it.

This is a good article, thanks

i see, an interesting read

Very interesting and I agree with the conflicting beliefs
over feminism and bondage. I think that as long as it is a
give and take and mutual then it is still ok.

Very complex situation, very briliant approach.


I loved this article...

"True empowerment is about exploring all the parts
of yourself that give you joy."


love this line

I love reading about other Poly relationships. I'll
take all the advice I can get on this subject. Thanks